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Thursday, January 31, 2008

Goldilocks got a haircut.

Sally Jane is a month shy of being three and has never had her hair cut. We have never had a girl with hair of gold or little locks. I have been the only one that has wanted to cut it for the past 6 months, I always get talked out of it by dad and Annie kate.
But this morning trying to comb through the thin, tangled baby hair that has been on that head for almost three years had to go.
I was thinking of taking her to The Yellow Balloon, a kids salon on main street, dressing her up to get some cute photo ops of her getting her first hair cut - then I thought I would save myself the $18.00 (is that a crime!) and hour of my time. I sat her on my bed, got the $6.99 hair scissors I keep hidden in my running clothes drawer and while she was watching t.v. I went snip, snip.
Having curly hair makes home cutting very forgiving.
I didn't even take a photo before I cut the 5 inches off. She was so excited to carry around her hair in a baggy all morning.

Annie Kate came home from school while I was taking the photos of Sally Jane and she said, "What have you done?" she is so sad and was holding on the golden locks like they were alive. Holy smokes! I say it is just hair it will grow back and since I am the one who is lucky enough to comb it every morning I feel I get to make the decision to cut it.
so now I hope I will have less screaming in the mornings.

**one of the best ideas I got from my friend Liz who took photos of her little girl with all of her baby dolls. I loved it so much I had Sally Jane's Christmas photo taken with her two "Sunny Sunny" bears that go everywhere with her. she is obsessed with the color yellow.

Pace Project #1
Get over it - good mail style!
I have a series of Pace Projects that I want to do this year in conjunction with my word of the year.
Ok, so one thing I have not done on my blog for a long time is post my good mail received. Because I am a compassionate perfectionist I get in a jam in many areas of my life and good mail is one of them. I want to document good mail because it reminds me of the goodness in my life, I want the picture to be perfect and hanging on my cute little tree out front,I can't always get the cute photo on the tree, i get worried i will forget someone's good mail and then they will feel bad so I have just kind of stopped not knowing where to pick back up , I also get worried how it is perceived when i post the fabulous mail i send (ie: I can hear it now, "you have time to take photos of your mail but you can't clean your kitchen floor) - so today I tell myself GET OVER IT and Pace yourself. I am requesting Amnesty for all the good mail I have not documented.

Today I got some mail and this is what my face looked like!
in the mail I got these awesome Pink Oakley Sunglasses
the sender notice I had posted a photo of them on the BackCountry.com giveaway and she sent them to me! They are the most incredible glasses ever. oh my I love them. I love the white bag they come in, i love the white hard case they sleep in at night. I feel like one lucky girl.
I am not feeling bad anymore for sharing the goodness that my every so nice mail man sits on my doorstep. Pace Project #2 share all your birthday goodmail and don't worry what people think about it!

Pace Project #1 notes
  1. take a photo of mail the day you get it and stop worrying about finding clothes pins to hang on the tree
  2. send thank you notes right away so you don't get all worked up that you need to do some big grand thank you package
  3. don't worry about what others think about you sitting in your own home taking photos of your mail
  4. clean kitchen floor no matter what you do or don't do.

Thank you to the sender of these glasses can I brag about you or do I need to keep this undercover?
Don't make a bundt

If you ever offer to bring a dessert to a baby shower, don't make a bundt cake. Because if it does not come out of the pan perfectly then your dessert is ruined. No one wants to see a slop of a cake on a cake platter weeks before they are to give birth.
But if you don't heed my advice and choose to make the bundt and half of it stays in the pan. glue it together with icing, put it on your best cake plate, tie your best ribbon around the bottom, fill the middle with paper shed and put some chocolate eggs in the middle to make it look like a nest and then hope everyone looks at all the distraction so they don't notice what a mess it was before you came.
The bird theme is ever so hip for baby showers these days.

Cake is a devils food cake mix with the below filling dyed pink - for the perfect pink and brown combo

Peppermint filling
1/3 cup sugar
1 tablespoon cornstarch
2 T butter, soft
1/4 cup milk
1/2 teaspoon vanilla
8 oz of soft cream cheese - this is key not too hard not too soft
1 egg
1 teaspoon peppermint extract
pink food coloring
drop spoonfulls of filling onto cake and do not let it touch the sides, it will sink while cooking.

Thanks Jordan for helping me find this awesome recipe!











and the winners are:
I was unable to access blogger yesterday so the winners are being announced a day late. And yes I did say winners - that Lilly Lane could not just pick one but added three more to her winning list.
Here you go....

*Kim Sue: "Know" I love her quote she posted on her blog about her new word of the year. "If you don't know where you are going every road will get you nowhere"-Henry Kissinger

*Carlo: "Progress" I love how her word takes on 2 different meanings: making progress or to progress (so many possibilities with this word)

*Staci: "Mold" Such a funny word and choice until you read why she choose it! She is focusing on part of the definition of the word: "a distinctive nature, character or type." She wants to be a distinctive person and stand out. There is no more hiding in the background for her. I love the charge she is taking for the new year.

*Chanel: "Remodel" She says she is taking out what she doesn't like and is replacing it with what she really wants in her life, but not to worry...her husband is staying! So funny! Simple word, yet the meaning pushes you into action and I really believe she will get life changing results this year from this one word.

so if you are one of the winners email lilylanedesigns@gmail.com to claim your prize. And don't forget to brag about your winnings on your blog, we will all want to see your pendant when you get it..

If you want to order you word of the year in a pendant you can use the same email and you click on their website to get the price list(great prices by the way)

Thanks Lily Lane you were so generous! I cant' wait to watch your business soar!


Tuesday, January 29, 2008



Challenge: what would you do with a 25th our of the day all to yourself

i would go to the dentist and get my tooth fixed that has need to be done for over a year. I really need to get over this whole asking friends to watch my kids thing...

President Gordon B. Hinckley raises the 2002 Olympic torch high as the torch reaches the Church Administration Building.
(Photo from Deseret News.)
How far would you go?

Are you ready for a challenge? This Saturday Marathon Mommy ( a awesome website encouraging women to get on their feet) is issuing a challenge to anyone of any religion to ask themselves "how far would you go?"

In honor of President Hinckley's life they are encouraging women to take on the challenge to get on their feet. You can walk, you can run or you can stroll - but just do it in honor of a man who was an incredible example of living life to the fullest and being as healthy as you can be.
If you have been wanting to get active or if you run every day take a minute and challenge yourself to 1 mile or 100 and while you do you can reflect on his life.

here are a few ideas


  • download a some of his conference talks on your ipod and listen to them while your walk/run

  • write the 9 b's on your hand and think about how you can apply them to your life Be Grateful - Be Smart - Be Clean - Be True - Be Humble - Be Prayerful - be Positive - Be still - Be involved

  • put a photo of him in your pocket of your jacket (of course this would apply to all those in freezing running weather... burrr!

  • ask yourself, "how far would you go for the prophet or leader of your church?"

  • set a goal higher than you think you can go and watch yourself be amazed when you walk/run with a purpose.
Jen, a local reporter, in Salt Lake City Utah for KUTV 2 is doing a story on all your blogger women out there, so take a minute and sign up on Marathon Mommy and pick your mileage goal

I thought this was a wonderful memory that Jeffrey R. Holland made at his 84th birthday. Getting on your feet this Saturday is a good start to have someone say this about you on your 84th birthday. (keep in mind he lived until he was 97)

“President Hinckley is the youngest 84-year-old anyone can remember. The brisk bounce in his step, the unrestrained buoyancy of his spirit, and his consuming appetite for hard work and long hours would be admired in a man half his age. President Gordon B. Hinckley looks young, acts young, and loves youth with all its potential and promise”





finally getting some good mail out and it feels so good!
i just love sending items in food boxes, especially the pasta boxes with the peek through window, covering them with funky stamps and good mail stickers from the good mail queen.

Monday, January 28, 2008


Gordon B. Hinckley

Beloved Church President Gordon B. Hinckley, who led The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints through 12 years of global expansion, has died at the age of 97. President Hinckley was the 15th president in the 177-year history of the Church and had served as its president since March 12, 1995.




Where were you?

My brother gave me the challenge to remember where I was on the day President Hinkcley passed away. It think it is a great idea Spence, and why it is all fresh to me today, someday I will go back and read this and be glad I did.



All quotes are from President Gordon B. Hinckley


i was in a meeting for girls camp and in the opening prayer I remember the girl praying for the health of our prophet.


Pray for wisdom and understanding as you walk the difficult paths of your lives. If you are determined to do foolish and imprudent things, I think the Lord will not prevent you. But if you seek His wisdom and follow the counsel of the impressions that come to you, I am confident that you will be blessed. Gordon B. Hinckley



amazing photo by chris detrick



I was getting set apart for my new calling with the power of the preisthood that has been given to our prophet


Now you young women are on the threshold of life. You are old enough to have been baptized. You are young enough that the future world of which you dream still lies ahead of you. Each is a child of God. Each of you is a creature of Divinity. You are literally a daughter of the Almighty. There is no limit to your potential. If you will take control of your lives, the future is filled with opportunity and gladness. You cannot afford to waste your talents or your time. Great opportunities lie ahead of you. April 2007





I went to church in our Nation's capital


How we need to kindle in the hearts of youth an old-fashioned love of country and a reverence for the land of their birth. President Hinckley 1997




I spent the afternoon with dear friends from my church eating lunch in their home and sharing the blessings of service.

"I believe that others will rally around us if we [keep our covenants]. We can stand for truth and goodness, and we will not stand alone. Moreover, we shall have the unseen forces of heaven to assist us. President Gordon B. Hinckley




I went to chruch with my three girls and husband



The gospel of Jesus Christ is the way of peace. To the extent we follow it and incorporate it in our lives, to this extend will we be blessed and prospered. What a wonderful thing it is to be involved in this glorious work. Let us rejoice in our great opportunity. Let us serve with gladness."

Podium in the Conference Center - made from President Hinckley's black walnut tree.


I spoke in church and shared my testimony

We need not be [afraid]. We need not slink off in a corner, as it were. We need not be ashamed. We have the greatest thing in the world, the gospel of the risen Lord. Paul gives us a mandate: "Be not thou therefore ashamed of the testimony of our Lord" (2 Timothy 1:8).
President Gordon B. Hinckley May 1997,


I said goodbye to a ward I had attended for a year.
I was bonded to these people through service


“Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.”



Jeff and I recognized how serving this past year in church has made us stronger as a couple. Our conversation was in the parking lot of the Washington D.C. Temple. It was dark and the temple was all a glow.

"I am satisfied that a happy marriage is not so much a matter of romance as it is an anxious concern for the comfort and well-being of one's companion"Gordon B. Hinckley

Thank you Spencer for encouraging me to do this. Thank you Ryan for waking me up last night to call and tell me. Before Annie Kate went to school I told her while she was eating breakfast. The look on her face was priceless and reverent. She was really sad and asked a lot of great questions.

So where were you?

Sunday, January 27, 2008


A grateful heart.

Words can not even express how wonderful today was. Our last Sunday going to church was humbling and a year in the making. My heart is broken and full at the same time. I look forward to making an appointment with myself to write down my feelings of this year. Since it is 9:00 pm and I just walked in the door from leaving the house at 8:30 am, that appointment will be on another day.
Thank you to all of you who gave me such direction to do so.

Last Sunday

As I am getting ready to shower and fly out the door to our ward for the last time, I have a note to myself with two things on it,
  1. don't wear mascara
  2. bring lots of Kleenex
total range of emotions today as we finish out our year service calling down in the city. My bishop encouraged me to write down all that I have learned and areas of my life where I have seen myself and family grow. It seems like such a daunting task and I have no idea how to organize my thoughts..... so I am soliciting help.
Ask me a question - any question about our Sunday's, what we have learned, what we would change, wouldn't change - etc. Any ideas how i should organize my thoughts - I hope that it may give me an outline to type up or thoughts in the next few days.
After church today look forward to gathering with some friends for lunch. We will then come home and I will race back to the Stake Center for a meeting for my new calling that I got last week..... exciting stuff.

I had to give a huge shout out thanks to Jill for letting me use her husbands new primary drawings as we are redoing the primary board this morning. I can't to see how it turns out. don't you just love them?

Friday, January 25, 2008



my husband's heaven on earth.
Today is Jeff's birthday. While he knows I have a blog and I think sometimes he might read it, he is not sitting around waiting to see what I would write to document his birthday today by any means. So I was trying to think what I could write about on his big day to get him excited. ... ah -ha! Wengen!
I never finished writing about our Europe trip this summer, which is unfortunate because I never wrote about the best part - WENGEN. it is a small town in Switzerland that we spent 3 of the best days of our lives. I almost picked the word Wengen as my word of the year. Jeff and I have this phrase that we say when we get stressed out we tell each other, "find your Wengen!"

So as part of Jeff's birthday gift I will remind him of our wonderful days spent in Wengen.
the above photo captures Jeff at his happiest. We had hiked to Mannlichen and there he sat looking at the view of the Junfrau, Eiger and Monk mountains. We waited for a long time hoping that the clouds would pass to see the full view. We would not get a full view until a day later coming down from the train on the other side of the valley. (video below)
Looking at the picture gets me choked up because this guy has worked his tail off to be able to climb a top that mountain and fully enjoy that. He sacrificed years of his life waiting for a moment like this.Wengen is a small little town that is up in the mountains. It has no cars. We parked at the train station, loaded up all of our luggage and took the train to Wengen. We had reservations at the most incredible hotel.
As we got off the train someone from the hotel was there to meet us and called us by name. They loaded up our luggage and put it on the hotel golf cart. We drove the quarter mile to our hotel. Standing in the archway was the hotel owner to welcome us. He took us to our room and got some milk for the girls.we had crumpets and chocolates waiting.
they had rearranged the room and put two cribs in there for the girls. Caroline still talks about when we can go back to the room with the blue crib. the hotel owner handed us our key on the big gold key chain and told us our table would be ready for breakfast in the morning. We loved hanging our key on the hook each day as we left the hotel and finding it waiting for us at the end of the day. A whole different way to look at security.
sure enough the next morning there was a table for five with room 209 on the table. They had even put a high chair for Sally Jane. It was the cutest vintage white high chair one has seen. The food was incredible. I ate Muesli each morning. We spread Nutella on croissants and had salmon on bagels. The breakfast was included in our stay and was a far cry from our normal Day's Inn continental breakfast. Our waiter asked the girls how they like their chocolate milk and the rest of the mornings it was just to their liking as we arrived to the table.

After eating everything we could we went to the grocery store to buy food for our hike. Berries, cheese and chocolate - yum.
We took a large tram to the top of the mountain to hike to Mannlichen. As you got off the tram all you could hear were bells ringing in the mountains. It was amazing. Seriously a movie setting. There were cows everywhere along the hike with bells on.


this video shows the smaller trams you could get on to go even higher and everyone playing on the playground on top of the mountain.We had bruises all over our arms when we got home because we kept pinching ourselves because it did not seem real! then some new bruises came.

you can hear the cow bells as the girls are on swinging on the hammock.


here is a video of how cute the cows were when we first saw them.

the first part of our hike we met a family from Ohio and they offered to take this photo - one of our favorites from the trip. We were talking to the family and Caroline got a little close to one of those cute cows with horns. As i turned around I saw her trying to take the bell off of his neck. Then she got scared turned her back to run and he horned her and flipped her up in the air and she went flying and landed smack on her face. All of us ran over there and the Ohio family was more freaked out than we were. But it was pretty scary!

it is a MIRACLE those horns did not go through her lungs and she only had a scratch, but we stayed far away from the cows after that.

It was a beautiful hike - despite the cow horning, screaming, "carry me, I can't walk" , "I need to go to the bathroom"and again Jeff had found Heaven on earth
we watched the hang gliders in ahhh.

that night we ate pizza on the patio and paid way too much money for water and it was driving me crazy that it cost more money that diet coke. But the weather was just beautiful.
We were told that it had been raining for a solid week before we got there and it did not rain again until the morning we left.
the next morning we awoke to our breakfast table to find Swiss flags everywhere, even on our rolls at each plate. It was Switzerland's Independence day and we had hit the jackpot by being in the country and this city for the celebration. We had not idea when planning our trip. I use the word planning lightly. When we left for Europe we didn't even know about this town or had plans to stay there. During our time in Garmish Germany we got an email from our Bishop that said, "you must go to Wengen" we took his advice and pricelined the hotel, checked out of our hotel 3 days early and took the risk and boy did it pay off.After breakfast we went to the front lawn and just sat on the bright yellow chairs and did nothing. A first for this trip where we were constantly moving. The girls played on the grass and we just sat in the sun and did not move for an hour.
it was there that i took this photo, could be my all time favorite from the trip. This is Jeff with his favorite things in the world. His cute wife taking a photo, his girls hugging all over him and he has the most incredible view of the mountains.
we then walked down to town center. They had a champagne brunch for the entire town. The town has 23 hotels and a population of 1050. All 23 owners were there walking around serving champagne and yummy pastries that I could not shove in my pocket fast enough for later. There was maybe 200 people that came together and it was all free. Our hotel owner came and found us gave us big hugs and said, "My family" Darn I wish i would have had him pose for a photo with us.
we then crossed the valley and took a large tram up the other side to Murren to spend the day. We went to get lunch, more chocolate, cheese and crackers at the Coop grocery store and went to play at the playground. On top of every mountain there was the best playground equipment that gathered the children together.
Annie Kate started playing with 3 girls with the whitest blond hair. She would seem to find friends easily during the trip but most of the kids thus fa only spoke German and they would use sign language to take turns on swings and such. I noticed these girls all dressed in Red for the holiday spoke incredible English and our girls played for over an hour. I saw their mom on the other side of the park and decided to go talk to her. I remember thinking this is so great, we are in Switzerland, on the top of a mountain, my kids are at a playground with these beautiful Swiss children who speak English.
I sat down next to the mom who was so grateful that Annie Kate was playing with her daughters. I asked her where the lived and she said, "Palo Alto California"! I started to laugh. This is the area where over half of Jeff's family lives. She also thought it was funny we were from the States.
all the girls wanted to have a photo together as they had so much fun playing together. I am sure if we would have spent 10 more minutes together I would have found out they knew someone in Jeff's family or went to their school. Small world even on the top of it.
the view coming down the train was incredible and the view Jeff had been waiting for.


when we walked back onto main street would could not refuse the yummy bakery with their festive sweets. Every thing in town had a red flag in it . It had transformed during the night as all the hotels hung flags from every window and shop owners that were not there the day before.We bought two initially but I think went back and bought two more.


then the girls played life size chess in the town center.

We went back to have drinks and meet the guests of the hotel and hang out with the owner of the hotel for a special pre-dinner mixer. We were so out of place with our crazy kids. We were the only ones staying there with children as it was more of a honeymoon - retired hotel. the guy pooring the drinks was our favorite guy and waved to us through the window on the day we left.
But all the staff were so nice to us and our children. I bet after we stayed there they took themselves off Priceline so people like us could not get deals any more.
Then we went in for dinner. I wish I would have been more bold and taken more photos. This meal was incredible. The girls were so tired and cranky. so we ate in shifts. I would sit and eat at our table while Jeff was out with the girls and then we would switch.
We then took them upstairs for a little down time to watch the 7 inch dvd screen.

We then geared up for a night of festivites for Independence day. Because we were sick for the 4th I was thrilled my kids were going to get a chance to see fireworks that year. I had no idea how incredible it would be.

As we were walking down to the parade the church bells were going off. It was dreamy. The church was just below our hotel so we could hear them every morning too. I had to add this video as this sums up our whole two week trip. There could be something so beautiful to see but at the same time the reality of taking 3 kids was always right there. If you listen closely you can hear Caroline screaming right before she stomps on my foot.
The video gives a good glimpse of where we saw the fireworks later that night.
we walked down to town center and watched the firemen get ready for the fireworks. It totally made sense why they were there because there 10 year old shooting off roman candles and pointing them at each other - it was kind of crazy and we are thrilled we all returned with full vision in both eyes.
then the horn blowers came and played right in the middle of the street. because there are no cars (just golf carts) the were able to just play in the middle of the street.





horn blower video



we totally missed the boat on buying the kids paper lanterns at the stores that day. They had a kids parade where they walked through town with the band holding their paper lanterns on a stick (with a lighted candle inside - another reason for the firemen) it is probably better as I am sure my kids would have caught someone or thing on fire.
we went up to the top of town to hear the program and wait for the fireworks. Our kids had had it! and so we decideed to go back to the hotel and see if we could see them in the sky as we were walking back. As we were walking back as we passed the church with the ringing bells down below was another town, as we were high up in the mountains. It was a miracle - just then they started their firework show. We were up above the fireworks and watched them from the top down. It was just our family and another couple watching. We said, when do you ever get to see fireworks from the top? We were so high up they almost look small. It lite up the whole valley and the sides of the mountains. It was amazing! Poor Sally Jane is ruined for life, no other firework show will compare.by the time we got back to the room the Wengen fireworks were starting. We then realzied we had a perfect view from our room window. Amazing. We got to watch in our pj's.

leaving our hotel was so sad. I hugged the hotel owner and said if I ever start a hotel I am doing it just like this! He walked us to the door and waved goodbye as the little golf cart took us to the train station.

the train ride back to our car was so sad. We fell in love with Wengen. Jeff had a smile on his face the whole time.
Happy Birthday Jeff, I hope this brought back a lot of great memories.
and they way you feel in Wengen that is kind of how
I feel every time I walk into the ribbon outlet.


side note. The concept of "finding your Wengen" is interesting and has really got me thinking. When we left for Europe (thank you again US Army for making it possible by letting us fly free on a C5) we had no plans of staying or going there. It came up when we least expected. I am glad we didn't over plan our trip so that we were open (lelly's word of the year) to going there. We will never forget Wengen and like the thought of trying to find Wengen even when we can't be there.