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Wednesday, September 05, 2007

she is dropping the Kate!

Oh no, Annie is trying to drop the Kate from her name. I think she plotted it this summer that when she went into third grade she would just go by Annie. I just might be crushed. Everything she has signed since school says "Annie" and when I asked her about it she rolled her eyes and didn't want to talk about it. I told her I was the mom and that it would break my heart if she just went by Annie and when I say "Annie Kate - she is Great!" it sounds better. So after talking to her today we will see how it goes.

Last night was Back to school night. Oh my this school means business. It was 3 hours long. First hour slide show from the first week of school along with talk from the principal about how proud they are of their test scores.
Second hour was with the homeroom teacher. When we walked in the room all the students had their front page of their pretend newspaper hanging on the wall. Oh my I was laughing so hard!

Here are some of the highlights:

Top story said, "Write a story about an important event in your life"
An Important event in my life was when I went to Europe. I went to 5 Countries. Germany, Switzerland, Italy, France and Austria. (she left out Lichestein but that's ok) I went to a mountain called the Swiss Alps. When I was on this trip I was 8. My favorite place was Switzerland.

Meet my Hero
My Hero is my Dad. He is my hero because he is nice to me and sometimes buys stuff for me at the store.

My favorite Food - Ling lings (from Costco)
My favorite Song - Sweet Caroline (this made me cry)
When I grow up I want to be - in the Military (ok this is so cute yet interesting)

Her teacher is amazing and used to be a gymnastics coach and then decided to get her master's and become a teacher. She has a total coach way of doing thing and motivating kids to do the impossible. She has a great website with all of their homework each night and schedules and such. They read 25 books this year and do a book report for each one. This will be challenging for Annie Kate but so great too.This photo is of Sally Jane 5 minutes after we got in the car from church on Sunday. She does not easily fall asleep in the car so this shows how tired she was - this could have been any of us.
On Sunday I brought down over 300 children's books that our local ward had collected to give to our primary children and for the community who comes to our ward building for tutoring nights during the week. (can you believe I did not take a photo) The back of our car was packed and we had to put some in Annie Kate's seat. During primary I told the kids that when we were done they could go through the boxes of book and start their own library. Two of the kids jumped up and ran to them (they didn't hear the when we are done part) all of them were so excited. When we were done it was so cute to see all the kids going through these books and filling their bags to take home. One family took an entire box and started a wonderful library. We still have a lot and will pass the rest out after linger longer on next Sunday.
Our Sunday experience has been on my mind a lot lately and we have had many incredible experiences. It is the one thing that tempts me to make my blog private (which means it is read by invitation only) so that I could write in more detail about some of our experiences. We have been doing this for 9 months now and I am amazed at how much this has fit my word of the year, "Stretch" I have been stretched for sure. Our time right now is up in the air how long we will be there which ads to thoughts in my mind. I feel like the more I know of needs of people the less I feel like we are doing or able to do. I had told this to a friend near by and she asked me what I thought the difference between helping and serving is. She gave me this incredible article about the definition of both. I realized that I have been doing more helping and not enough serving. Because I have been helping the inconvenience of what we do seems to be more apparent.

I seem to have been in a little bit of a rut of late and trying to pull myself out. Last week I was lucky enough to get a much needed spiritual uplift from Jill. She read this quote to me. It is timely for me in many areas in my life right now and I feel lucky to have a friend who would share this with me.

“There is nothing that we are enduring that Jesus does not understand, and He waits for us to go to our Heavenly Father in prayer. I testify that if we will be obedient and if we are diligent, our prayers will be answered, our problems will diminish, our fears will dissipate, light will come upon us, the darkness of despair will be dispersed, and we will be close to the Lord and feel of His love”
Robert D. Hales
I made it to Target today and found $2.50 swim suits in next year's sizes - total score! I came home to a voice mail from a friend to tell me that our Dora house (her I both got them 75% off this summer) has been recalled by Mattel, because it was made with lead paint. My girls play with this every day and will wonder why I am now taking it back.
yet I will say Polly Pocket has made a new appearance in our home and my little ones are hooked! We have not had these around the house because we always seem to have someone crawling or swallowing little toys. I bought a slew off ebay and now I am constantly changing rubbing pants for rubber skirts. Can't complain because the kids love them. (but I now my neighbor tells me some of these are on the recall list as well... jeesh!)

26 comments:

Mique (as in Mickey) said...

Many thoughts- first I see the dilemna with Annie Kate. But she will always be Annie Kate to you and that's what matters (at least for me)....
I love your thoughts and ideas from your ward- serving vs. helping.
And I totally get the rut. I posted today about not feeling happy as of late and how it's hard to put on the "happy face" when I really don't feel that way.
I LOVE the quote by Elder Hales and felt today was the perfect day for me to read something like that. Thanks for the boost. Hang in there.

Lauralee said...

great quote.. from Elder Hales. I would love to get the reference on the helping vs. serving... that is interesting to me.. and interesting that you think you have been helping more than serving?? I just would love more insight on that..

Annie Kate- bummer if she drops the Kate, but she can always go back I guess. it is cute! I have a Emmalee.. I wanted Emma.. but we compromised and spelled it a little different just in case she decides Emma is for her!

Take care.

Wendi said...

I wanted to name our son Will, we ended up naming him Brian Willard. And now everyone (including myself) calls him Wilbur. It's funny the way names evolve.

Rachael said...

I hope you don't go private because I read your blog everyday and don't even know you! I love reading your idea's and 'borrowing' them (I do give you credit when someone likes it!)
I feel the same way about the recall. My son has a die cast 'Cars' car and I really don't want to take it away.

Price Cream Parlor said...

Some of my littles still answer to their nicknames - Stinky - it isn't a great name to be called when you are 16! But they still love it! Annie Kate will always be your Annie Kate. And, she will feel special even if you are the only one that calls her by that name. Keep us posted on this one...
I would love to hear about serving vs. helping. Is that all in the attitude?
I saw a list online with all the recalled toys. I think every toy in America is on that list. Good luck!
Loved Jill's quote. How timely!

Kari said...

I copy and pasted that SAME quote from Jill's blog and it is hanging right here beside my computer in the study. I'm thinking of getting vinyl letters or part of that quote for my wall. It IS a great reminder - Thanks Jill and Kristi for reminding me again.

As for Annie Kate dropping the Kate, I think Annie is still a very nice name too. So it's good choices all around!!

((((HUGS)))) I hope you get out of your rut soon!! And that is so great about all those books for those inner city kids!!

Hilary said...

You inspire me *so* much. Creatively and spiritually. Thank you!

(love.LOVE your girl's names... I'd be bummed about Annie kate dropping the Kate too. :0( )

RoRo2 said...

I Love the name Annie Kate, it just rolls off the tongue nicely and sounds so beautiful, please tell her I said that though I'm sure it won't make a difference what a bunch of her Mom's blog friends think, hopefully she will return too it.

I too love that quote and love your blog too, I haven't commented too much because your blog is just so great and I don't know how to add what I want to say without ruining it! (like now) I have been hooked on your blog since the beginning of my blogging days so if you do go private please include me!

Michelle Alley said...

It's too bad about being in a rut. I've seen quite a few blogs with the same story and it's sad to see so many of us down. Maybe it's the time of year? I just loved your story about the children's books. It's comforting to know that they received these books when they might not have had the opportunity. I hope that you believe they are making as much a difference in your life as they are in yours.
Good luck with Annie-Kate's name, my sister's 9 year old is becoming quite the indendant thinker too - it must be the age.

lisa h. said...

yes, do you have to article about helping v. serving? I'd like to read it too!

so my son started preschool today & it made me think - i better get on the ball for kindergarten next year like that Kristi cause she's so creative and does all those fun things with her kids for school and the teachers! i'll be interested to see if your daughter really drops the Kate - kinda sad. I don't think our kid's names can be shortened but you never know!

Anna said...

I would love a reference to that article on serving vs. helping.
The donated books is so touching. I love, love, love childrens books and have dreamed of opening up a children's bookstore someday, but I wouldn't make any money because I would want to give every kid that walked in the door a free book. That is an awesome service project to be involved in.
And just a thought...make a seperate blog that is private just for your church and other personal/spiritual experiences...but, that of course would take more of your time...so maybe not a good option?!?

Serendipity said...

Fun to catch up on what you are doing...

Love the fact that so many books were collected...and shared...

The Annie Katie 'Annie' story is so good...I can relate...Matthew is no longer Matthew -- just Matt (and it makes me a little sad)...

Great quote from Jill...I love it when friends share just the right thing, at just the right moment...

Funny you mentioned the Polly Pockets...We are in a Polly Pocket phase here as well...Why didn't I think of EBAY?????

michelle said...

Weird. My RSS hasn't shown any new posts from you in a long time. I clicked over just to check and look what I found!

Kind of sad about AK trying to become just Annie. But you can always call her by her full name! It's so hard when they start making their own choices...

I loved the story of the books for the children in your ward -- that must have been so gratifying to see! And I too would be interested in more information re: helping vs. serving.

Ashley said...

Don't go private! I know the dilemma, but it would be a tragedy for the internet at large to lose you.

Laurie said...

I've missed your posts. I'm sure this is an incredibly busy time. I found that Elder Hales quote to be very uplifting as well. I hope things keep lifting.

I hope the name dilemna with Annie Kate works out. How is soccer going? We have started that over here, and as always it's fun to try a new experience. I am trying out the team mom thing! Off to make the snack and game schedules.

Barb said...

My son, Steven, is running for 6th grade student government and on all his posters he wrote, "Vote for Steve". He dropped the 'n' and I am sad about it. I will always call him Steven.
I'm with lauralee, I'd love the reference on the helping vs serving article. Sounds like one I would benefit from.
I am totally doing a book drive, that was inspiring. I just need to figure out who the books are coming from and who the books are going to.

Elizabeth said...

My daughters teacher shortened her name this year. And my daughter is too much of a pleaser and doesn't want to change it back. I am so sad.
I threw away a bunch of recalled Thomas the Trains last week and all of our Polly Pockets that have magnets. Those are made out of lead. No fun.
I love hearing about your Sundays. They have inspired me in so many ways.

Anonymous said...

My RSS hasn't updated you in a while either- dang!

In junior high I started to go by my middle name and my mom was so sad. When I met my husband he called me what my family called me and it has evolved back to that. So for about 4 years I have friends that know me by Rexine...weird huh? But I have always referred to myself by what my mom has always called me. I love the name Annie Kate- all your girls names really.

The book thing is so cool! 300 books! Wow- what a cool service project. The idea of serving vs. helping is very interesting. Hope you elaborate :)

Liz said...

That is a great quote Jill shared from Elder Hales. I've been thinking alot about service lately, in fact I was having a dream about it last night, it was a weird dream! Anyway, I love to hear about how your Sundays go in D.C. Your family does a wonderful job there.

I think Annie Kate is so cute. Maybe this dropping the Kate thing is just a phase. I remember going through a period where I wished I had a different name, and trying to come up with a name I liked. It will pass. :)

Lindsay said...

Isn't it hard when our kids make choices that so distinctly show that they are their own independent person!? Hard to watch them grow sometimes.

I too hope you elaborate on helping/serving. I have been feeling a definite lack in my spirituality lately. I know that focusing on that would make the rest of my life better but its so easy to get caught up in all the other things. Must work on that.

denise @ little ant design said...

So good to see a post from you. I hope that you will soon be climbing your way out of your rut - I'm thinking about you and hoping all is ok.

Many here in cyberspace love and appreciate you so thank you for sharing your life and thoughts with so many.

patsy said...

My son changed his name in third grade. His name is Jack Garrett. We always called him Garrett he decided he was Jack. I fought it & fought it then one day we had a heart to heart & I asked him why... well, it almost broke my heart. He has the most beautiful auburn hair & even with 2 other red heads in the class ( I guess it was too common hardly any teasing) some boys had started calling him Garrett the carrot. I was stunned! I could tell this was devistating for him so after our little talk & much praise I immediately called him Jack from then on. One fun thing about it- the kids say you can tell how long we've been friends with someone by what they call Jack- on accident. Of course now that he is 16 Jack fits him like a glove.
I know it is tempting to go private, I completely understand- but gosh you inspire so many!
Jill's quote~great! Thanks for sharing today, love, love the book story.

Heather said...

Oh I hope you don't go private! I've been enjoying your blog for the past year now!! You are such an inspiration!!

LJ, DC and ML said...

Love the quote from Jill. I may need to put that up on our fridge. Wouldn't it be nice if some of the posts could be private and others public? I'd love that. Love Annie Kate too of course, I wonder what she'll decide to do?

Amanda :-) said...

Oh, I feel for you with AK wanting to twiddle with her name. Let her do her thing - because I'm SURE when she's older she'll realise how special it is to be an Annie-KATE rather than a bog-standard Annie.

Book giveaway is a brilliant idea! Glad it was received so enthusiastically.

We've had the toys recall here in UK as well. What were those Chinese manufacturers thinking, cutting corners with children's products of all things? I'm so angry about it.

Jill said...

Annie Kate's newspaper is so cute. I love it that her favorite song is Sweet Caroline! It's too bad if she decides to drop the Kate from her name, but hopefully if she does it will only be a short phase to experiment with it, she's only 8!